The Retirement Party & Tombstone Exercises are powerful tools for self-reflection and values clarification. Give it a try this week, and let it inform your work and the work you do with clients.
When clients feel stuck comparing their current circumstances to the past, this metaphor gently guides them toward experiencing the present as it is, rather than resisting it by wishing it were something else.
This technique helps clients create distance from their internal voice and respond to their thoughts with curiosity and flexibility rather than entanglement.